Destiny Versus Law of Attraction

Dear Amazingly Gorgeous LoveFilled Friends,

Today my beautiful and God of Light friend, Prabjot, phoned me. Prabjot had a question about the Law of Attraction that was so good I asked her to email it to me so I could write a post about it.

Here is her email:

My beautiful earth angel.

Thank you so much. I love you.

I wondered if you could help me understand, the law of attraction and destiny. If destiny is something we have already, pre-agreed with the Divine spirit, and law of attraction is something we are trying to attract, surely law of attraction only works if it is for the highest good of all concerned. So what I am trying to understand is , how does Destiny, co-creation and law of attraction work.

Much love and light
Prabjot

Here is my reply to you and Prabjot:

Before we come into this physical reality we define the experiences that we will have.  My daughter, Serena, at the age of 5 told my husband and I one night from the back seat of the car that before she came here, she and God planned and wrote out what she would be doing on her hand.  I love that idea and it fits in with my belief system better than any other concept I have heard.

I came to my physical exsistence choosing to experience a profound connection with the Divine and to share that energy with others.  My life’s experiences have gotten me to where I am now.  I’ve been guided to get here.  Along the way I have had resistance and guidance.

The big things in my life have already been chosen.  Now what I have to do is let go of limiting beliefs so that I can be in the life that  has already been set up for me.

How do I know hat my Destiny is?

I find my way through how I feel to know what is waiting for me.  If I think of doing seminars with hundreds of people it feels scary, but it also feels right on a deep level.  Making enough money to travel around the world with my family feels better than thinking about having just enough money to pay my bills and have a little treat here and there.  For me, I know that my destiny is to reach higher levels of connecting to the Divine, to support people by aligning them with who they are and flooding unconditional love to them and making a nice amount money.

Does attaining my desires mean that others will be harmed?

Definitely NOT!  When I, or anyone, is in complete alignment with their destiny and who they really are everyone in their environment benefits from it!

Our environment is a reflection of how fully we are being who we really are.  It is a reflection of our relationship with the Divine.

How do I align with what I want?

The key is to put your focus on what you want.  If you are unclear as to what you want spend time defining what you don’t want so you can turn it around to find what you DO want.  Also consider that you DO know what you want, you’ve been spending your entire life defining it.  I’ve spoken to people who were so afraid of what they wanted because it was so different from their present way of living that they were burying their desires.

KNOW THIS:

If you can think or dream about something you can achieve it. Also regardless of the dream, thought, idea or concept you have right now, what you are capable of is even bigger, brighter and better.

You are here to experience your dreams. Your Divine Self and all the forces of Source are guiding you every second of every day.  All you have to do is focus on what you really want, feeling good and letting go of any beliefs that keep you from being who you really are.

Thank you Prabjot for the great question!  I so appreciate having the opportunity to answer from my perspective!

You are beautiful and loved! Know that the world is your playground and it’s time to have fun and to play the games you love!

With Love and Appreciation,

Angela Bear

http://www.angelabear.com

Pelican, Todays Animal Totem

Dear Gorgeous and Beautifully Loved Friends,

Today I woke up from dreaming about pelicans. In my prayer time I saw that the energy and message of pelican was applicable to you.

When I studied and trained with my Native American teachers I learned that one of my passions is animals and the energy and information that they provide. Because animals live in the present, in the NOW, they are naturally in alignment with Creator, Source Energy, The Divine.

If for any reason you are unable to trust in your own messages, you can be sure to trust in the messages that are brought to you by animals.

I love Ted Andrews book “Animal-Speak”.  For a time it was my personal bible as I studied animals, their ways and the messages that they brought to me.

To me Pelicans are friendly sharing animals. They can work together in hunting and allow room for others in nesting. They intrinsically hold the energy of abundance and hold the message that there is enough ‘pie’ for everyone, no need to hoard or worry about someone else getting more than you. They are simply not competitive animals.

Pelicans are also very buoyant despite their size. The brown pelican has air sacs beneath that skin that make it impossible for him to sink.

Here is an excerpt of what Ted says about Pelicans in his book:

“Symbolically, this hints at being able to be buoyant and to rest on top in spite of the heaviness of life circumstances.  The pelican teaches that no matter how difficult life becomes, no matter how much you plunge - you can pop to the surface.  The pelican holds the knowledge of how to rise above life’s trials. this same idea is hinted at in regard to an old belief that pelicans once lived in the desert, in which they fed upon serpents.

Pelicans, in spite of their lightness, sometimes have a difficult time taking off from the water. Still they do manage, and again we can see the correspondence to freeing oneself from that which would weigh you down. The water is a symbol of emotions, and emotions often weigh us down. The pelican teaches how not to be overcome by them.”

I say that the message of Pelican today is that regardless of how you feel and what is going on it is impossible for you or I to drown. It is a good time to let go of limiting beliefs and to take on board the reality that the Divine Abundance is vast and that there is more out there for you than you can possibly imagine right now. It is bigger and better than you ever dreamed.

Allow yourself to let go of any thoughts, feelings or beliefs that have kept you from experiencing the true joy, love and abundance that is available to you right now!

I love you.  You are successful, abundant and loved!

Today and tonight I want you to allow yourself to find better feelings thoughts and to dream of the future that the Divine has in store for you! Remember that regardless of how big your dreams are right now, the Divine has even bigger things in store for you. Tap into that energy and allow it to come into your awareness now. Feel how it belongs to you!

With Love and Appreciation,

Angela Bear

http://www.angelabear.com

Winter Colds Are Just Another Way To Have What You Want!!

Hello Gorgeous Beautiful Friends,

It is winter and I have been laid flat for weeks with a flu that has been going around.  Every winter I get a cold.  For me it is a time to flow with the energy of winter; it is a time to let go of what is no longer needed and make room for all the goodness that is sure to come.

This year for me has been about making great relationships and profound deep connections.  It has also been about learning about who I am and honoring my abilities.

So, why then did I get the flu?  This is a great question! There are quite a few reasons.  Firstly ever year around this time I either choose to actively clean up my limiting beliefs or situations are created that convince me to do that.  I have an established belief that this is my clearing out time, that colds and flus are an indication of clearing out and that I am simply going with the flow of winter energy.

I actively work on clearing out my limiting beliefs on a daily basis. There are times that I will spend 6 hours straight working on my alignment, clearing out limiting beliefs and connecting to Source Energy. I spend every morning clearing and connecting.  Winter is just a time when I spend more time working on me and less time connecting with others.

Whenever you have the sniffles or are feeling below par take some time out to be with yourself and clear some of your limiting beliefs. Find what feelings, beliefs, ideas are lying underneath your physical symptoms and actively start cleaning them out.  You can do Ho’oponopono, Reiki, or simply change the feeling, thought or idea into one that makes you feel better.

Whatever you are feeling, thinking or believing right now is getting you to where you are wanting to be.

Every second of every day you are being guided into making the choices that will allow you to experience more love, joy and abundance.

When life hits you and you get a cold, are feeling unwell, or unhappy know that on the other side of that is something that you really want! Use that belief to support you in feeling better and raising your spirits.

I truly love you and see your success, connection and beauty.

With Love and Appreciation,

Angela Bear

http://www.angelabear.com

What You Watch Effects Your Reality!!!

How are you feeling today? Are you feeling good? Are you thoughts happy and supporting your sense of well being?

Last week I had the opportunity to more fully realize the effect of having negativity in my environment.  I’ve been resting and getting more into alignment as my body has the flu. To pass the time I’ve been watching some TV shows that friends have recorded for me.  Perhaps because I was feeling quite miserable and a bit bored last week I spent a huge chunk of time watching some episodes of a show that really affected my energy and the way I was thinking.

Normally I stay away from anything that is ‘gritty’.  I am ususally really careful in what I watch. But a friends boyfriend recommended it and my friend made it available to me and I wanted to check it out. It was amazing to see how much I was affected by the story line and the unhappiness of the main character.

My daughter came to visit me in bed while I was watching it and I had to turn it off. She’s 10, she wisely has a great aversion to gritty programs and movies.  Even though Serena had come in to my reality and given me a heads up to what I was doing I persisted in finishing the episode I started as soon as she left. Then when I was in bed that night I had new thoughts and ideas running through my head that were not my usual pleasant thoughts.

The next day I had the choice as to whether to persist watching or not. I kept watching, I had the whole first series and the story line had captivated me so much I wanted to see it to fruition. I am persistent.

I have studied and trained how to control my mind and thoughts. This is still something I am learning and practising on a daily basis.

What I really want to share with you is that spending a day and a half watching gritty, unhappy, disconnected examples of manufactured reality took me out of my default alignment.  I had to work at getting back to the base I usually start from to move myself forward.

That second day I spoke to Serena about it. I told her about what I had been watching and how much it had affected my thoughts and how I felt about myself and viewed my life. I told her that from now on I would use her as a guide to what I watch. If it is something I wouldn’t want her to watch then I am definitely not going to watch it myself.

Everything you take in and absorb affects how you view yourself and your life. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you do you are affected. I spend hours every day connecting to Source Energy, yet watching episodes of a gritty program, even though I fast forwarded through the bad bits (lots of them) I was still affected.

Set a standard for yourself of what you allow into your personal space. What you take on board affects how you think, which then affects how you feel and ultimately it affects your ability to be living the life you want to live.

I love you.

Thank you.

With Love and Appreciation,

Angela Bear

http://www.angelabear.com

When Do You Know Enough to Work with Clients?

Dear Incredibly Beautiful and Loved Friends,

Today I got an amazing message from someone I have newly connected with in Facebook. My new friend has been in training and has worked with people but realizes that there is more to learn and is wanting to learn even more before really going forth into the world to share his gifts.

Here is the reply I sent to him:

I had this woman do some energy work on me today. Phenomenal…. She found me on Facebook. Anyway, I’m telling you this as I have often had an inner battle about not knowing enough.

It’s funny, you see people go on a course and they run out and want to heal people and are full of confidence; yet the more someone learns the more they realize there is so much MORE to learn.

Start working now…… do it in anyway that feels comfortable to you. At some point someone will come along and help you tweak your energy or you won’t need it because you will see the benefit your clients are getting from you.

People that come to you will only come for what you know. It is IMPOSSIBLE for someone to come for a treatment from you in area you haven’t learned. It just doesn’t work that way.

ALSO, and this is HUGE, you know this…. People come for YOUR Energy, what you share consciously can not compare to what you are giving on the deeper levels…. You have that all the time, you can do it in your sleep.

Find what feels comfortable for you and do it.

What I am trying to say is I have studied for over 20 years, my website was just put up this year and I have only been working on it for a few months… I don’t feel completely knowledgeable and ready and I have over 20 years of teachings, training, studying, learning etc. What is enough????? I just took the plunge and today I’m actually loving it.

You are doing extremely well.

I love you.

Thank you.

With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
www.angelabear.com

The Most Important Relationship You’ll Ever Have!

Dear Beautiful and Loved Co-creators,

This past week has been a busy one for me. I’ve been working more with my favorite clients and reveling in their reaching new levels of peace and self awareness.

Everything I’ve dealt with this past week has been based on relationships. If you’ve worked with me or have been reading my posts you’ll know that the relationship that is the foundation of all your other relationships is the one you have with yourself. (Meaning the one you have between you and your Inner Being, Creator, Source)

How you feel about yourself is reflected in your relationships. If you don’t feel worthy or good enough that is going to show up in at least one relationship.

The way to improve your relationships with others is to improve how you feel about yourself and how you view yourself.

If you are in a relationship then use it to your benefit to really explore how you feel about yourself. Your partner is reflecting back to you what you truly believe inside of you.

If you are not in a relationship use this time to build on your relationship with you and your connection to Source Energy.

I love the saying that ‘you are born alone, you die alone’. Not because I believe it, but it reminds me of my reality. My reality is that we are always connected to that greater part of us that is connected to the infinite power and resources of Source. We come from that, we can tap into that and Create what Feels Good.

The other thing I love about that saying is that it reminds me of the gaps, the in between spaces in relationships. Regardless if you are in a relationship or not there are times when you might feel alone. These are the times to reach for and grab your connection to Source. Reclaim your power, your essence.

Society is big on teaches us that our partner provides this, that or the other. As humans it so easy to get wrapped up into the belief that we are providers of happiness for our partners. In reality we are responsible for our own happiness. Our partners our responsible for theirs.

We are only alone in ‘our mind’. In reality we are completely connected. We are all energetically linked and everything and anything is possible.

If you want to be in a loving and happy relationship use the image of what you DO want as your driving force to really get to know what you want, what would be perfect for you. If you don’t know than work through what you don’t want. Make a list of what you don’t want. Work on it a bit every day. Focus on what you don’t like. Then use what you don’t want as a way to get awareness of what you do want. Really clarify what you want.

All the time build on your knowledge that you always have the greater part of you, your Inner Being, the part of you that is completely connected and IS Source Energy with you.

Today my wish for you is to KNOW that nothing is final, nothing is as concrete and permanent as your ability to change things to how you really want them to be. You are a Divine Expression of Source Energy. You are beautiful and you are loved!

I love you.

Thank you.

With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
www.angelabear.com

Ho’oponopono Upstream or Downstream?

Dear Gorgeous and Magnificent Co-Creators,

I got a lovely message from a client asking me if doing Ho’oponopono was going Upstream or Downstream because it brought up emotions when she thought of things to ‘clean’ on but then when she’d cleaned she felt much better. This is my reply to her:

“I’m not sure how upstream doing the Ho’oponopono process is. What I am sure of it that is does take me downstream and gets me more in the flow than I would have been had I not done Ho’oponopono in the first place.

I haven’t heard Abraham talking about the Ho’oponopono process. I know that Joe Vitale is friends with Jerry and Esther Hicks and that in the early days he used to get into their seminars for free because they loved him so much. I know from one of Joe Vitale’s downloads that I bought he plans on asking Abraham about the Ho’oponopono process and how it fits in with their teachings.

I believe that Ho’oponopono falls in line with my Native American medicine teachings. I was taught by an Oglala Medicine Man that our Chakra’s are made up of hundreds of pictures (facets) and that when we clean a picture then people can no longer push our buttons on that picture. A picture is literally a snapshot in time or a movie that is one of the facets of one of our Chakras. There is an initial incident that then each similar incident is placed upon the memory of the last. Each time a similar incident happens then the emotions of ALL of the incidents are brought up. The Natives I trained with called these ‘pictures’, Richard Bandler co-founder of NLP calls them ‘pictures’.

For instance as a child your dad calls you ‘stupid’ in fit of anger and that makes a picture. Then you go to school a few years later and get into an argument with a friend and she calls you stupid. That brings up the emotion of your dad calling you ‘stupid’ and you place the memory of your friend calling you ‘stupid’ on top of that. So say the first time it happened with your dad it made you feel not good enough, every time you get called ‘stupid’ you feel as if you aren’t good enough. That is a picture. It can be built on time and time again. There is no limit to how many layers are in that ‘picture’.

What Ho’oponopono does is cleans and erases those layers, in my opinion. What Ho’oponopono says is that the limiting beliefs, the pictures can be there from the beginning of time. This falls in line with the Native belief that ‘pictures’ can be built upon lifetime after lifetime.

It seems as though just like me you are getting results from doing the Ho’oponopono, so just keep doing it! Does it matter if Abraham is for or against something? Abraham is usually FOR processes. They used to say affirmations were good, now more recently they say that it is going a bit upstream, but if it works to take you downstream you should do it! Do anything that takes you downstream.”

I love you.

Thank you.

With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
www.angelabear.com

For or Against?

Dear Beautiful Co-Creators,

Has anyone cottoned on that I use Facebook? There are some annoyed people on Facebook because of the change in layout on Facebook.

Today I got an invitation to join a group, this was the header: 1,000,000 AGAINST THE NEW FACEBOOK LAYOUT!

I sent the whole of the group this message:

“You might find the energy of being ‘FOR the Old Facebook’ works better than being AGAINST. When you are pushing away the focus of pushing away attracts more of it. What you focus on is what you CREATE. Put your focus on what you want, not what you don’t want!

Good luck with your mission!

You are powerful and loved Creators.”

I got a reply that basically said it depends and that it’s sometimes good to say no. I replied:

“I think it comes down to teachings. From my training the Universe and the Subconscious do not understand the negative words: no, not, never, etc. Science proved the latter, or at least Richard Bandler did. So, if you use a sentence with “no” or “don’t” in it the Universe/Subconscious/Spirit automatically delete the negative words, which usually leaves you with a statement that is FOR what it is that you are against.

Obviously you can say NO to people, to Facebook, whatever. I’m just saying that a NO energy against something is much less effective than a YES energy that is FOR something.

The Universe works by ADDING and CREATING, it’s Creation based. Against is pushing away.”

Please know that it is easier to Create something that you want than to say ‘No’ to what you don’t want and keep the unwanted thing away.

Be FOR Peace, instead of Against War. Being AGAINST anything is attracting more of what you don’t want! Be for a Great Relationship instead of Against a bad relationship! Be FOR fidelity instead of Against infidelity!

Use what it is that you don’t want as a way to get clarity of what you DO want. Then put your focus on what it is that you want. The more you put your focus on what you want, the more that ‘thing’ you didn’t like fades into the background.

The Universe, Source Energy views what feels good, not what doesn’t. Find ways to appreciate what is and use what you don’t like to rocket you forward into what you do and then keep your focus on that.

Learn how to love where you are right now and you will be living your dreams before you know it!

I love you. You are beautiful and powerful Creators!

With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
www.angelabear.com

Falling in Love

Dear Amazing Co-Creators,

Wow! It’s funny how people see love. I just read a pretty ‘disturbing’ description of love on Facebook. I think it was a Shakespeare quote. (I’m not sure, just a guess!) Anyway I will copy it here so you know what it is:

“Love in its purest form does face the fury and the wrath and possible extinction due to wanton, relentless battering it gets … we poison love and stab at it and knock it down in mud and it gets up, staggers on, bleeding and muddy and awful, yet it lives on … in the end nothing can keep it from surviving, like a flower which blooms from under a solid boulder .. frail against the elemental fury, yet swaying ever so beautifully in the relentless wind …

The fate of love is that it always seems too little or too much and the course of love never did run smooth, yet a tempest on high seas always holds sway over a calm sea ….”

The above quote is definitely the opposite of how I view Love.

Love for me is something that flows through us freely from the greater part of us. It is always there in the absolute perfect amount. Always ready, willing and waiting for us to open ourselves up and embrace our truest nature, which is to love freely, openly and unconditionally. Not just ourselves but everyone and everything.

When we are truly being Divine Expressions of Source Energy we have all the love of Source Energy, of the entire Universe flowing through us to everything we come in contact with. When we hold someone in that Love a great healing transpires as regardless of where that person was vibrating before the interaction they too are now vibrating more from a place of peace and connectedness.

We all have the ability to experience pure unconditional Love. We feel that Love every time we embark on the journey of a new relationship. People wrongly assume that it is all to do with the other person. The reality is that person holds aspects that remind us of who we really are and we are flooded with all the Love that is there for us all the time, whether we are in a relationship or not.

The best thing to do when Falling in Love is to stay Grounded and remember that the Love flowing through you is the Love that Source Energy and Your Inner Being has for you AND for your significant other. You want to stay Grounded and to remind yourself of this because that ‘Falling in Love’ feeling doesn’t usually last more than a few months and reality starts to kick in. There is a way to keep that Falling in Love feeling going in a perpetual cycle until death do you part. I know, I live it on a regular basis.

The reason why Falling in Love feelings start to fade away is because our old ways of thinking and believing start to come back into existence. While in the state of Falling in Love or better yet BEING IN LOVE all our lower vibration tendencies are gone. We are floating on the cloud of possibilities. We are Creating, Living in and Experiencing Dreams. We ARE in the Vortex of Who We Really Are.

At some point we start to fall back down to reality and we see our partner doing something that isn’t in keeping with the dreams that we were just so recently creating and we are not best pleased. We immediately start pulling back a bit and experience a loss of faith on some level. The worse thing we do is blame the other person. This is easy to do as the other person has already received FULL CREDIT for how we felt while we were Falling In Love. It’s easy to get wrapped up into blaming the other person from taking that great feeling away!

The more you connect to Who You Really Are, the more you build on your relationship with Your Inner Being and Source Energy the more you can have the feelings of Being IN Love, even if you are single!

I am married and my relationship with Julian has had it’s up and downs. Once I fully turned to to working on my relationship with my Inner Being and Source Energy our relationship improved in leaps and bounds. I was able to experience the sensations, urges and energy of Being IN Love. At first he was the same, but the more I relished in my new found experience the more he was attracted to me like a moth to a flame. Every day is a new opportunity to feel greater amounts of LOVE!

Yes, I have my own contrast, I am here having a physical experience just like you! It’s just unlike other relationships that I have heard about, Julian and I keep having a ‘Honeymoon Period’ time and time again. I’d like to state again that I am the main person working on this. Julian has aligned with a great relationship by doing what he wants and I’m the one doing the ‘work’ that we both benefit from!

Really I can hardly call it ‘work’ when the results are so incredibly fantastic. Each day we have the opportunity to experience freshness and newness in our relationship yet we have the benefit of really knowing one another and feeling relaxed and comfortable in each other’s presence.

Falling in Love is really about you Falling in Love with who you really are and the other person is just a reflection of you. Honor your power, your Love that flows freely to you from Your Inner Being, KNOW that you are a Divine Expression of Source Energy!

I love you.

Thank you.

With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
www.angelabear.com

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Dear Beautiful Co-Creators,

Today I have my own resistance in the form of a summer cold. So, this is going to be ever so brief. If you want me to expand on this just let me know!

Here is some advice I gave a special client of mine. I have two ways of working with people; I do one of individual sessions and I also work with people on a one, two or three month basis (this is my favorite way to work) where they have 1 session a week with access to daily email support. This is a great way for them to keep their energy and vibration up in between sessions and a great way for me to give them homework so that they are consistently raising their vibration as opposed to just maintaining it. It is by far my favorite way to work because I love the huge changes that my clients can make and how deeply they connect, feel good and have success in their businesses!

Here’s an excerpt from an email I sent today:

“OK we need to really talk about the things you need to do BEFORE you call your clients so you aren’t spinning your wheels and getting people that are in meetings or on another call. In the morning when you get up do the Ho’oponopono and grounding. Use the grounding meditation from my website and stay in that totally relaxed state. Then see yourself going through your day in complete alignment with everything and everyone. See new opportunities opening up for you. See yourself getting the best results imaginable. Feel how good it feels to flow through your day with everything unfolding nicely.

Stay in that place relishing those visions and feelings for as long as you like and focus on any specific things that you might want to feel extra confident and secure about!

Because this is a new way of doing things you might get it working perfectly the very first time or it may take a day or two. You have to power and now you have the tool for you to create your perfect day. Use this for everything, including your personal life.

Know that you are loved!

Tell me how this works for you!”

With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
www.angelabear.com

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