The Most Important Relationship You’ll Ever Have!
September 22, 2008 · Print This Article
Dear Beautiful and Loved Co-creators,
This past week has been a busy one for me. I’ve been working more with my favorite clients and reveling in their reaching new levels of peace and self awareness.
Everything I’ve dealt with this past week has been based on relationships. If you’ve worked with me or have been reading my posts you’ll know that the relationship that is the foundation of all your other relationships is the one you have with yourself. (Meaning the one you have between you and your Inner Being, Creator, Source)
How you feel about yourself is reflected in your relationships. If you don’t feel worthy or good enough that is going to show up in at least one relationship.
The way to improve your relationships with others is to improve how you feel about yourself and how you view yourself.
If you are in a relationship then use it to your benefit to really explore how you feel about yourself. Your partner is reflecting back to you what you truly believe inside of you.
If you are not in a relationship use this time to build on your relationship with you and your connection to Source Energy.
I love the saying that ‘you are born alone, you die alone’. Not because I believe it, but it reminds me of my reality. My reality is that we are always connected to that greater part of us that is connected to the infinite power and resources of Source. We come from that, we can tap into that and Create what Feels Good.
The other thing I love about that saying is that it reminds me of the gaps, the in between spaces in relationships. Regardless if you are in a relationship or not there are times when you might feel alone. These are the times to reach for and grab your connection to Source. Reclaim your power, your essence.
Society is big on teaches us that our partner provides this, that or the other. As humans it so easy to get wrapped up into the belief that we are providers of happiness for our partners. In reality we are responsible for our own happiness. Our partners our responsible for theirs.
We are only alone in ‘our mind’. In reality we are completely connected. We are all energetically linked and everything and anything is possible.
If you want to be in a loving and happy relationship use the image of what you DO want as your driving force to really get to know what you want, what would be perfect for you. If you don’t know than work through what you don’t want. Make a list of what you don’t want. Work on it a bit every day. Focus on what you don’t like. Then use what you don’t want as a way to get awareness of what you do want. Really clarify what you want.
All the time build on your knowledge that you always have the greater part of you, your Inner Being, the part of you that is completely connected and IS Source Energy with you.
Today my wish for you is to KNOW that nothing is final, nothing is as concrete and permanent as your ability to change things to how you really want them to be. You are a Divine Expression of Source Energy. You are beautiful and you are loved!
I love you.
Thank you.
With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
www.angelabear.com
My name is Piter Kokoniz. oOnly want to tell, that I like your blog very much! And want to ask...
I have a question, maybe you can answer it for me? I’ve been working with the Law of Attraction for well over a year now, and have had some startling results, but there’s one area where I’ve repeatedly met resistance. Money. My health has improved no end - I had an ongoing medical condition which has vanished - it was easy to imagine my life as a well person, (having been well & healthy most of my life) and even when I felt really crappy I could do things that a healthy person could do, so it was relatively easy to change the way I thought about my illness. I’m having more resistance with the money thing though. This time of year is especially difficult, with people going on about Christmas shopping & parties etc when I haven’t the money to buy presents or get a bus back from a party in the next town. My idea of being “rich” can be having enough money to buy lunch at work tomorrow, which is tiny. How can I “fake” having money when the “reality” is so different? Any ideas on how I can break through this resistance? I KNOW this situation is only temporary & normally it doesn’t bother me because I’m so used to having hardly any cash, but right now, I’d like to be able to go to the pub with my friends & buy some Christmas presents!
Dear Gorgeous Friends and Beautiful Jackie,
The first thing that struck me in your post was that having enough money to buy lunch would mean being ‘rich’. I would work on expanding what being rich means to BIGGER things.
I can only use myself as an example and having enough money to buy lunch for me is a given. I have decided that all meals will be provided to me. My idea of ‘rich’ is traveling in a private jet. It’s very subjective
Know that the more you expand your desires the more you are lining up with who you really are. I love Abraham’s quote: It is as easy to create a castle as a button. It’s just a matter of whether you’re focused on a castle or a button”. When I first heard that on the Abraham-Hicks Hawaii Cruise I just couldn’t stop crying.
Hearing that quote was a huge release and a huge learning that I am still understanding on deeper levels.
From my experience I would say that it may be easier to create a castle than it is to create a button.
Why???
Because your Inner Being, your Spirit, the Divine part of YOU and the Universe know your value and worth.
If you are debating your value because of your limiting beliefs then you are limiting what you are creating. When you are shooting for the stars and feeling that owning the company you work for, or the catering company that provides the food you are in more alignment to who you really are.
The Universe wants big things for you. The Universe is expanding and wanting to expand through you. Hoping for lunch has a very different energy to hoping for a multimillion dollar company that provides lunch.
The best way to change that energy is to play with money on a daily basis.
I am going to share two processes with you:
Process 1)
The Money Game
Get the largest note of money you can get your hands on. If even that is beyond what you are capable of now, get a photo of one, or make one up yourself. (Technically, I have been told it is illegal to photocopy money. I’m assuming you can take a photo or make a drawing.)
Spend time every day spending that amount in your mind and keep that money with you. Say you have $50. Spend that 100 times in one day, in your mind. You’ve now spend $5,000. Do this every day for as long as it takes for you to start getting money in.
I did this game with incredible results. I kept getting cash in, so now I am working on checks and paypal payments. Not so long ago Julian and I counted all the cash I had lying around and it was an unbelievable amount.
I would suggest that you play this game until you have the physical evidence of the money coming in.
Process 2)
I Am God
For this concept you need to think of the most spiritual person you know or have heard about. For example, Jesus, or the Dalai Lama, Nichiren Daishonin. Imagine you are that person embodying your physical body. You have that persons faith, peace and connection to all that is. Spend some time walking around in your house being that energy. As you are walking imagine you are walking through your every day life but with the energy, presence, peace and faith of the Spiritual being that is embodying you.
I find this exercise freeing and empowering. I use it whenever I really need a reminder of who I am and what I am able to accomplish. I also use this with clients and walk them through it so that they can completely reclaim their power and get a fuller understanding of how much creative control they have.
It also is a great way to really ‘Nevelize’ what you want in a really positive way.
Use this technique to teach you how people view you on a deeper level. You are seen through eyes of awe, inspiration, unconditional love.
I love you.
With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear
http://www.angelabear.com
Hi Angela, I have to tell you about my experience after playing your Money Game! I’ve been doing it since you posted this reply to my question, & on Saturday I went down town & saw a pair of shoes I liked that were reduced from £60 to £20. As the shoes I was wearing at the time were my only non-work pair & were literally falling apart (the soles were coming away from the tops & my feet were SOAKED) I really wished I could have them. Monday came & for some reason I felt the urge to check my balance & somehow there was £50 in the bank. I have no idea how it got there. Every penny I earn usually goes on bills & I never have any money in the bank after payday. So I bought my shoes & now my feet are warm & dry
So I shall continue to play the Money Game & look forward to being rich! Thankyou so much xxx
Dear Gorgeous Jackie and Beautiful Friends,
It is awesome to have results! Thank you for sharing with all of us.
I too am continuing to play the money game and am having amazing results. I am going on a course in London this morning and taking Julian and it has all been paid for by the money I attracted!
I love you!
With Love and Appreciation,
Angela Bear